We are not Coincidents

Hey you. Yes, you.

You were meant to be here, now and in this place. 

By design

It’s a well-planned purpose.

Let me explain. 

You see, it is not a surprise that I was born at a certain date,

time and place.

I am not surprised to see how beautifully I am

designed: these eyes, this mouth, this heart, these hands, feet, fingers, right down to this lovely little beauty-mole on my chin! All these intricately designed features that help us exist. 

I am not a coincidence and it is not an accident that I’ve entered this family.

Nothing that I am, or that is happening with me or around me is a coincidence.

Whether we believe in Karma, or Destiny or Past Life or Stars etc… 

We are here with a fully-loaded plan and

it only opens up when the time is right. 

Just like it is said ”The teacher appears when the student is ready”

So that evening when I was with my Soul Mate – my Darjeeling Tea, I had this very revelation. 

Nothing, past, present, or future, in our lives can be shrugged off as mere coincidences. 

Everything was important for my road to soul development.

A road that led me to become a better person, as per the plan.

At every dead-end, I met new people who helped me find the next step.

Helped me to grow within and learn life lessons that remain dear to me even today.

Now that I look back,

I often chanced upon people, who might have been strangers at the time, 

But still somehow started me on my spiritual path.

I learnt that everyone in my life, 

Found a way to teach me or direct me to

something beautiful yet unknown to me at the time. 

That day, on my balcony, I could join the dots and

see the meaning of each and every one of those people in my life.

I want to thank them for being there.

Maybe you can take a second to thank them too. 

In hindsight, even the painful experiences at work, 

All the betrayals and such, taught me something.

Something I couldn’t value at the time, 

but time has shown me the light. 

In all that chaos and bitterness, I came out

strong and they were still stuck there. 

Even the bad experiences, 

It turns out, 

Aren’t coincidences.

They have shaped me in my thoughts, my action and in my

being. I thank them all. Good and bad. 

The sum of my experiences all lead in one direction; 

Towards the development of women. 

Making them financially independent.

Oh how the power of hindsight makes everything clearer. 

Maybe this was in the back of my head,

all these years,

because I could relate to my Mother’s helplessness in life … 

I could relate to all these women I was meeting in my job as a Direct Seller. 

I was helping them to be financially

Independent, the way I wished my mom could have been.

I would hate it if women were made

to feel be – littled by their own families, they are

insecure, they have to be in mercy of someone else, and they

didn’t have freedom to express themselves. 

I saw it clearly and boldly that this was not surely a COINCIDENCE. 

My work and my life path were coming together! How cool is that! 

I felt I was one with my inner voice which was hearing every rumbling of

my heart.

So everything around me was meaningful to my

growth…I just fell in love with me that evening ! It is a

promise made by my creator that I am here for a

greater purpose. So I start over again, new and

fresh.

I hope you are able to connect the dots like me.

I am rooting for you.